NC has gotten pretty darn liberal these days with the 'bathroom' law. If you like going in the ladies room (or 4 wide) that might be a good place.
If you don't like men going in the ladies room while your wife (or daughter) is in there.... well, not so much.
I live just a few miles from Brick in Howell on my 8 acre 'hobby farm'. Had over 30 cars (race, street, trucks and some parts cars for Wall Stadium) and 25+ vintage and antique tractors in various states from fully restored to picked over bones.
We loved it !
But ... I had to move to FL. in 03 to get a kidney transplant or stay there and die waiting for a donor. Here in FL there is a 'no helmet' law and well you get the picture.
When I got settled in down here I could not believe the freedom we have. I live in a rural area, 1 mile to the water, 10 miles to the stores like walmart etc.. 2 Drag strips, 2 round tracks are about an hour drive.
Note - It was just as hot in Howell as it was here today.
Only two things suck. Hurricanes and summer humidity. Winter is amazing, we do have seasons, they are just different. we get frost every couple of years.
N.E. PA ? I used to keep my 5th wheel in a campground in the Poconos right near the Speedway. The weather there was horrible Way bigger snow than NJ and hot humid and almost always rainy.
When I look back NJ was a "do what they told ya" state and I was always in a rage chasing (tax) money and avoiding the law..
Couldn't have said it better myself....lol