If you removed the nut and the control arm is not supported- PUT IT BACK ON!!!! Get a floor jack under that control arm and raise it slightly. NOW loosen the nut a few turns, not completely. Just a 1/8" to 1/4" gap is good. Two ways to seperate the joint. Pickle fork tool you wedge in there between the control arm and spindle and whack with a BFH but that ruins the grease seal. Other way is to lower the jack (WITH THE NUT STILL ON!!) and whack the spindle area adjacent to the ball joint stud with a BFH. Might take a few good shots.The blow will deform the spindle just enough to release the stud, and the nut keeps it from flying apart in either case. Third and best way is to use a ball joint tool but still keep the nut on. And keep the jack close by under there just in case it blows apart on you. After it's loose you can insert the spring tool into the spring and make sure ALL the fingers have a good purchase on the coils-THEY CAN SLIP OFF!!! The nut on the tool should be in the shock absorber hole, and the top set of fingers should be the threaded ones. When you are sure it's good to go you tighten the nut and compress the spring-SLOWLY!! No air tools. Keep out from under the control arm in case it comes apart on you. Once the spring is compressed and is loose on the control arm and there is no spring pressure at all on the arm, THEN you can remove the nut from the ball joint, and swing the arm out of the way , and remove the spring. Treat it like a hand grenade with no pin!! Immediatly unscrew the tool and relieve the spring pressure. Once the spring is out and safe, take a break and have a cold beer.