Remembrance of Hank "Stone" Kruse

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patmckinneyracing

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This is just a dedication to a really close friend of mine for the past 15 years. Hank Kruse was born on November 2, 1940 here in San Antonio, Texas. He died this past friday at 11pm as cancer had finally taken his life. He has fought and battled against this disease for 12 years now and is always remembered as a dear friend and most importantly...family. But I want to tell you about how great he really was.

Hank began to learn how to play music when he was 10 years old. He began to refine his music skills and practiced on the bass as he stared into the sky watching planes fly overhead. He also had a fascination of flying. That is why he joined the US Navy in 1959 and spent his career aboard the USS Lexington and USS Hancock aircraft carriers as part of the air crew. He retired 4 years later after serving his country with honor, courage, and commitment.

Soon after his retirement, he became heavily involved with his country music. At the same time, he had a greater passion for his cars. When the muscle car wars began, he and another close friend of ours Mike Crowley became a team sponsored by Chrysler and Mopar Direct Connection. I've seen pictures of him towing his 67' hillborn injected hemi dart with his 70' Dodge Hemi Charger 500. This tag team continued racing until the gas crunch and the racing era had ended.

At that time, Hank began his own trucking company and spent most of his time on the road for another 20 years along with playing in his country band as the lead bass vocalist and racing his cars. I had the honor of racing him in my 80' malibu, except I was one second behind him and he was running with a broken engine mount lol. He was full of life and whenever he got in that charger, he acted just like a kid who is 19 years old with a supercar. Anytime we got around fancy car shows, including carlisle, he would do a massive burnout in the grass and piss everybody off and he would just laugh. Just 4 days before he died, he showed up at the house with the charger and did a nice burnout in the driveway. What was his excuse for that? " I just had to break in your driveway for ya".

He had great success these past few years after releasing 4 of his country albums and won the award of "Country singer of the year" in Europe. But soon he began to have heart problems and went to have a heart valve replacement. Well at the same time, they discovered he had prostate cancer. After numerous chemo therapies they thought they had killed all the cancer cells. Just a few years ago, the cancer had resurfaced. This time he had a tumor in his head the size of a golf ball and both his lungs were filled with tumors the size of oranges. He could barely walk 20 ft without falling short of breath. Watching a dear friend, a father, and someone who is so full of life as if he were a teenager suffer the way he did broke my heart and the hearts of others. But he fought cancer for 12 years and lived on with sheer determination and the ability to fight back. Finally the doc told him 4 months ago he had 2-3 months to live and he would be amazed if he made it to 3. He fought on for those extra months just so he could say "**** you" to cancer. '

He was supposed to go with us to a car show this past sunday because all the proceeds were going to find cures for cancer. My dad and I went anyway and as if he was looking after us, my old man took 1st place and beat an original 70' cuda and a 70 hemi challenger in the mopar class. Another ironic thing may be that he died at the age of 69, the same as his charger. I love him dearly and he was a father to me. To others, he was family, a friend, and a legend.

"For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life."

Hank was a holy man and we know he is in the arms of the lord. That and probably getting yelled at by god to stop doing burnouts in his charger up there :lol:. Please keep him and the family in your prayers, as we wish him safe passage.

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Picture of him (right) with Don Gartlett (left) after Don Gartlett signed his Charger. He also had signatures from Buddy Baker and the other famous mopar racers of the 60's and 70's.
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Hank to the right
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That was a sad but well written story of a true man! My heart goes out to you and i know your pain as i lost my Mom to cancer last Christmas eve. You have a talent for painting a story, you should try writing a book. Great job!
 
Thanks. I'm having a hard time cooping with this. I had a close friend of mine 4 years ago that I had witnessed him put a bullet in his head. So I guess I do better expressing my emotions like this, cause in person, being 19 and all, I always want to come across as macho or the hard *ss. But I learned today that life is too short to get angry over little things and to cherish every moment as if it were your last.

I stopped by his house the same day he died to borrow his sawzaw. When I looked over he had his oxygen hooked up and ivy's going as the hospital nurses who came to the house monitored him. It killed me inside to see him like that, but at the same time I didn't walk up to say hi or anything, even though I had the chance. I just couldn't bear seeing him like that. Then when I got home, I told my father that he was on his death bed. Little did I know how right I was. 🙁 I just wish I said goodbye...
 
You are absolutely correct, life is too short and we should not worry or complain about the little things in life as we are only here for a little while. Let it be a lesson learned to never take your family or friends for granted and always take the time to talk to them or say goodbye to them as it may be the last time that you do. I know from past experience as i have been around a lot of death in my 44 years of life. You just never know when someones last day is at hand. I am truly sorry for your loss.
 
You honored your friend in the best way.

I know nothing anyone says will lighten your heart right now. I'm sorry to hear of your loss. You were lucky to have known such a man and he'll be with you in your heart, mind and soul for the rest of your life.
 
a great tribute man... this was a very touching way to honor a mentor and close friend.

having death and near death in my family has taught me to not sweat the little things in life. I lost my dad to cancer this last december, and my mom was just diagnosed with breast cancer this last month... My dad was looking foward to seeing the regal finished, so now I'm determined to finish it this year, or at least to the point of being ready for paint.

as long as you never forget those who have gone before us, and honor them with your words and memories, they'll always be here.


Darin
 
Just dropping by to pay my respects... I am another "Hank Stone" in the music world... a singer, songwriter and guitarist from New York. I've been writing songs for 40 years, but only came back out to perform them since 2001. My birth name is Henry Stein, and I chose "Hank Stone" as a more easily remembered moniker. After becoming known on the Long Island folk music scene, I went to register "hankstone.com" as my website domain name, but found that the Texas Hank had beaten me to it, by a matter of weeks I believe! I had to settle for hankstone.net...no matter, I defer to his long and illustrious career... I have enjoyed his music from afar and am sorry I did not have a chance to meet him.
So good to see these loving tributes to him from friends and fans. Rest In Peace, Harold.
 
Prayers for Hank and thanks for sharing about his life.
 
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