Well my final outtake on this is, I've never been a parent, so I've never been in that situation and therefore I won't be quick to judge. Just not the way I was raised. I was raised that if I wanted a car, that's fine, but I have to get a job and pay for it. If I wanted a cellphone, that is fine, but I got a job and paid for it. And if my grades started slipping, I had to quit my job. I was always expected to do chores and to do good in school, and for doing that I got a roof over my head and 3 meals a day. I once asked at dinner "Will I ever get an allowance?" My dad replied, "You eating it." Lmao, all in all I am very happy and grateful for what I have and I'm glad my parents raised me the way they did.