Why does synthetic oil thin out so much when it gets old compared to other oils?
uh, actually it doesn't. it will actually stay thicker for the same miles as it doesn't break down as much.
hands down, no question, 100% guaranteed, MODERN synthetic is a better oil. the ONLY negatives are that if you have a flat tappet cam, no syn oil contains any/enough ZDDP additive (not that i know of at present). but they do make a zinc additive you can put in. and on some engines with loose piston ring tolerances you have slightly more oil burnt in the cylinders. this is due to the ability of syn to truly stick to and form a film on metal.
you will hear stories of how syn will kill seals and gaskets--that's from stupid people who listen to 30yr old research. yes, it was a problem then. THEN!!! not now. especially with new seal materials.
i work for an aerospace bearing manufacturer (turbine, rocket engine, satellites, mars rover, helicopter transmissions, turbo's, etc, etc) and we go through thousands of gallons of oil and grease a year. almost all of it is synthetic. i'm pretty sure that the few ones that don't ship with a synthetic lube on them are supplied with it by the customer.
What's really the best synthetic oil and why?
i asked my engineer about this awhile ago (he's a lube specialist) and he said Mobil 1 for automotive. and personally i do like it more than the others. you'll also note that nascar, GM, BMW, ME/BE, ferrari, porsche, maseratti, bugatti, toyota, and other major companies spec it on their cars. and i believe it's what's usually used in F-1 and leMans engines.
will it fix issues with the engine? not likely. it can quiet valvetrains, but it's not a miracle cure. but it has been proven to help engine last longer, even at 6000mi change intervals (which is what i do on my diesel--5w40 truck and fleet). people have tested the oil and found it's good up to 10000mi but i don't trust it that far. and if you plan for 6k and go past, you know you're still fine.
stay with the same viscosity, unless it's a diesel engine (normally 15w-40) 5w-40 is perfect, if it's a diesel rated oil, on truck motors and 0w-40 can be used on the car diesels like VW if it's a newer one. mine doesn't like 0w too much and i'm going back to 5w.