Time to 'fess up - I have small kids, dreams, and no time except to surf and set my Visa card on fire. Here is the $250 photo set to help you on your way:
Spectra wagon fuel tank (Made in Canada - yaay!) for a 1980 Malibu wagon Part # GM704A $155.79 (with filler neck)
Airtex fuel pump - TBI (40psi) or TPI (65 psi) these are the same shape so should be interchangeable
Airtex fuel 'sock'
Spectra fuel sending unit (box says 'Keystone' - Made in China - booo!) for a 1994 Astro 4.3L V6 #FG8A $ 48.79
Looking down at the top of the tank, the filler neck is about the 10 o'clock position. There are two locating tabs on the sending unit. There are two matching slots in the tank ring. If you 'obey', the sender is aligned with the plumbing pointing towards 5 o'clock. If, however, you cut off the locating tab closest to the giant 5/8" vent hose (this is where the tank vents through a hose back up to the filler neck in the Astro) you can rotate the sender 60 degrees counter-clockwise and drop the other tab into the locking slot. Now the plumbing points toward the front of the car, as with the OEM sender. There is still plenty of room for the fuel level float in this position. There is a rubber O-ring and a locking collar included in the tank and sender boxes. I suspect one tab will be enough to hold the sender in place. The two tubes with O-rings are for the fuel supply and return (fuel cycles in a loop in EFI apps to handle variations in fuel demand - excess fuel goes back to the tank). The 'normal' looking small tube is goes to the evaporative charcoal canister (that thing you tore off years ago from the left front fenderwell.) The 5/8" vent connection can probably just be capped off with no impact.
Inside the tank, there is an anti-siphon baffle - this could be a useful place to drill two holes and rivet in a short perforated box under the sender to act as a baffle to keep sloshing fuel from uncovering the pump inlet at low tank levels.
Oh, and if you're still reading, I've read several postings about replacement tanks where the filler neck does not line up. The neck on my tank stuck out of the top of the shipping box - a convenient carrying handle for those overworked UPS drivers - I suspect that is how they rarely align properly without 'persuasion'.
I bought this whole setup after reading about it on the Forum. Now I am undecided about putting the Ram Jet 350 in the coupe or the wagon. I have EFI senders for both options.