For now I opted for a used kimber aegis elite ultra as a learning unit to teach the wife. Not the highest capacity, kind of a compromise piece, but the price, immediate availability, made it basically a no brainer. I think we should easily get what we spent back as a trade-in down the road as well, with a possibility of getting more.
The yukon wound up converted into a camper unit with the rear seat out for a few nights. Meanwhile, a network of game cameras at the gate and roadside frontage of fencing, some other security improvements, I think we're in OK shape and wound up back down the coast till next week.
Believe the culprits behind the damage have been identified, or at least some of them. For this time anyways.
I agree with
motorheadmike about knowing and being willing to do what it takes. We had a family friend when I was first learning to shoot my first shotgun at about 6 years old. He was an officer in the next town over. Eventually killed in the line of duty when I was in high school. He used to always say, you don't draw your weapon unless you're ready to use it. If I ever wind up in trouble, dont point it at an intruder and talk, that just gets you into trouble. That always stuck with me.
Do I think I could? I expect so. Wife? Less sure. Until you're there in the moment you don't really know. But I've seen some scary people and situations from when I worked in Bridgeport CT and New Orleans LA. Pepper spray and the like doesn't stop someone high out of their mind, and I've seen or heard some bad things happening, enough so to have the alternative firm in my mind.