thanks for the input, i needed to hear from people with different gears and their experiences with them.
while i love the 2004r i'm considering the 700r4 now since it has a 3.06 first gear so even if i go with a 3.08 gear i still get to 9:1 and that's just fine for me on the street. as i said the car is not going to be a daily driver as it once was so im having to really rethink the gearing of this car. originally i was going to use a 3.42 or 3.73 gear and a 2004r transmission since it has a slightly better OD gear than the 700r4 BUT that has changed so i'm looking for better acceleration and the 700r4 would do that but still give me an OD gear for highway use if i needed to use the car for that purpose. highway use is going to be minimal for the car though, at most it'll see a few miles going back and forth to the track on the highway and while i could get there on city streets it would take much longer given where the track is.
as it has been mentioned if i switch i dont want to regear the car so i'm thinking 3.23 or 3.08 is the highest/lowest i'll go most likely since it will give better performance while still allowing lower RPMs on the highway with an OD transmission. it would just be too much to have it regeared with a rebuild on the rear and a transmission at the same time in terms of cost and i certainly dont want to put an OD transmission in front of a 2.41 gear, the operating RPM would be horrible and it would suck even if off the line performance picked up a little so i need to do the gear first IMO.
3.06 x 3.23 = 9.88 and that's a good number for street/strip performance. 2.52 x 3.23 = 8.14 (rounded to the nearest hundredth). quite a difference no? either way i'll get better acceleration and that's all that really matters. i think i'll go with a 3.23 gear.
with the rear i'm looking to rebuild it with new axles, bearings, differential, gear set, everything needed to make it like new. and disc brakes while everything is apart, save some time by doing it all one time, not twice.
of course using the 700r4 opens a can of worms for me. i want to use a BOP engine so i'd need to use an adapter plate to make it work and cut the drive shaft, more money for a transmission swap. being a budget minded car enthusiast is kind of a oxymoron isnt it?