College is not for everybody. I struggled with self-discipline during my first attempt. Smart and lazy in high school. I needed a Navy Size 12 Chukka boot up my *ss, multiple times, to get my head on straight. One thing you learn in the military is how low the misery scale really goes. Especially when you remember that you volunteered. May God Bless all the people that ended up in the Iraq and Afghanistan and came back not fully whole.
The purpose of a college/university is to perpetuate itself, unless, of course, it also has to pay stockholders. Their blackmail is to promise the diploma at the end. Unfortunately, some jobs require a diploma as a first hurdle. In the end it's all about what you teach yourself, whether it's canned courses or self-taught by reading. Pay the lowest tuition possible. I remember how frustrating it was to be promised credit for my military experience by some FP school, only to find out how much they wanted me to pay to get that 'free' credit.
Public community college is the best way to go, followed by state schools. Move somewhere cheap and establish residency to pay in-state tuition. Do the research to find out where the hidden good schools are that get people hired. If they have to advertise, it's probably not the best choice.
Or, join the military and let the state or Uncle Sam pay the bill for you. Avoid borrowing to pay for school. Treat your education as a full-time job, if possible. Get it done before babies arrive.
In my case, it was what I brought to the interview, in addition to the piece of paper that got a box checked, that got me the job. And it took two job changes before I found a really good fit to my (weird) skill set. Internships, work experience are the aces up your sleeve. Once employed, what you teach yourself, the growing skill set, that makes someone want to keep paying you.