Borrow money is that after they drink all your beerWhat if you hate socializing? I spend time with my Wife and the dogs, who also hate most people. My Daughter's when they are home on breaks, visit with them. I watch car shows and wrestling/wrestling podcasts after she goes to sleep. I do "tuck" her in most nights as well😏. Otherwise screw nosey friends. All my friends ever wanted was to borrow money.