the leads for the sensors for the gauges are in the wiring harness itself. use masking tape and label them so when you get the new engine in you can locate them and connect them quickly.
and yes you can find the right battery connector at the auto store. just about any competent auto store will have what you need.
to break the engine in start it and run it at 1500-2000 RPM varying the RPM a little through the entire break in.
the one break in i took part in was for 20 minutes i think. i suggest you have a good cooling system because the engine will get HOT. the one i did had the exhaust manifolds glowing red, and that was normal during the break in. if you can run a fan in front of the radiator, like a shop fan, you'll need it unless you have electric fans and i guess those will work but an extra fan in front of the car is recommended.
IF you have no oil pressure, IMMEDIATELY shut it down and try to find out why you dont have pressure. it could be a loose wire, you never know. if need be use a cheap aftermarket gauge just to be safe.
always be ready to shut down the engine. do NOT walk away, when you do bad things happen. watch it like a hawk. you may get some smoking, if the engine has a fresh coat of paint it will really smoke. new headers will smoke and burn the paint right off in 5 minutes flat. fluids spilled may also burn. have a fire extinguisher ready, preferably an ABC all purpose one, a big one if you can get one. or a garden hose and 911 on speed dial cuz ive seen engine bays go up in flames in no time at all. watch fuel lines!
to raise the rpm, use a couple pennies, nickels, etc in the throttle stop. do not adjust the RPM with a screw driver, bad idea. dont use your foot either, not reliable. use 2 pennies and add and take away a 3rd one every few minutes. its an old trick i learned and it makes the RPMs very steady and ensures you dont go below 1500 RPM.
do not start it and let it idle. start it and check all gauges, if they look good raise it to 1500-2000 RPM ASAP and let it stay there for 20 minutes. have a buddy help you watch the engine as you watch the gauges in the car. idling the engine too long could cause a lifter to kill the cam so dont idle for more than a few seconds if you can avoid it.
IF you have to shut the engine down to fix something that is ok, but make sure you finish the remaining time for the break in period. if you shut it down after 15 minutes, give it 5 more anyway. dont assume its down breaking in. my advice comes from a teacher i respect more than any other gearhead on the planet and i take his word as though it were from god. IF you have to shut it down let the engine cool down completely before finishing the break in.
this is what i was taught and what i go by. it worked before, it should work now. like i said, this comes from a guy i trust with my engines more than anyone else besides engine specialists so i follow his instructions to the letter.
and before starting the engine, double check and then triple check all connections, fluids, nuts bolts widgets, etc. last thing you want is a 5 dollar part ruining your engine so make sure everything is good before attempting to fire the engine.
and if you can, prime the engine for oil before you start it. that way you know the pump works, etc.