The 4L80E is a great unit, nearly indestructible with small upgrades. But your list shows what even a good used trans will cost, a lot. And the dam trans is huge, as your measurements show, good luck fitting it in and show us your solution. I will probably throw a BOP TH400 short tail at my 70S to start, there is no such thing as a strong, cheap OD trans install. That means a yoke change and move the cross member back, Transgo with dual feed and a $300 converter. Problem is any OD that fits easily, the 2004R or 700R4/4L60-70E needs about $1500 worth of internal upgrades, just parts, not labour plus a good converter which isn't cheap. The 4L80E should allow you piece of mind but still costs an arm and a leg and a big install headache.
And that doesn't include the $800 Canadian I spent on the used transmission! All-in this swap is going to cost me about $3000 to do it well.
It would be great if I could offset the costs a bit by selling some big ticket items, but post-Christmas is a horrible time to achieve stuff like that. Plus, it isn't worth dealing with the tire-kickers and time-wasters. Consequently, it must be done incrementally (I am still paying off the damn built 4L70E in the TBSS, FFS) - I expect to have the wagon back up and running by April/May.
All that said, I enjoy the process of creating solutions to problems that I have created for myself. I can't leave well enough alone. 😉