Ack, this wasn't the part that required two people. My memory is getting as bad as a California psychiatrist's. This actually has a pin that must be positioned to fit into a clocked slot on top of the A/C housing because it has double tabs on the end of the pivot. THEN you plug in the clips and rod retainer. It's still a PITA but doesn't really take a long time.
yep that's the one. unfortunately the part that's broke off inside it won't come out, either through the top or pushed down thru.... there's the problem. the pic shows how it broke, with a chunk of the flat part (that I can't grab onto) still attached to the pin, holding it in place. If I can just push it thru then cool I'll keep working on that, but if not....