Tony, part of the learning process is making mistakes. Just remember the basic concepts and you'll be fine. Although there is a saying..."repetition fixes firmly" don't repeat the same mistakes!
Always follow the paint manufacturers suggestions/directions and you won't go wrong.
Lastly, with regard to mechanical adhesion, you don't need to use 80-grit to achieve a bite surface. Once I lay down epoxy primer on bare metal, I stay away from any grit that causes deep gouges since they need to be filled/covered up. My usual go to grits once any primer and body filler have been applied are 220 and 320, then 400 and 600 for final sanding before applying base coats. I've found that scrimping of sandpaper is also a big mistake when doing body work. A lot of beginners tend to apply more pressure when the sandpaper stops cutting. Unfortunately, that approach leads to carving low spots. The correct practice is to change to new sandpaper.
Good luck!