I am running a big stall like yours, 3000rpm stall, with "stage 2" shift kit. I find with such a high stall, the hard shift gets gushy, and instead of a chirp, the tires just break loose and keep spinning.
Essentially, I don't feel a jerk because the stall makes its slightly gushy, but the shift kit does shift pretty hard and breaks the tires loose spinning...
The trans is set up for 4000rpm shift points, and so in normal driving in D, it'll shift smoothly from 2-3-4, but still hard from 1-2. At WOT, it'll shift farely hard, but too soon at only 4000rpm. So, when racing, I do the shifting myself at 5500 to 5900 rpm.
I am basically experiencing what Phoenyx said about his trans