You can get ball joints without the splines. On my pickup, I bought spicer joints (oem) and while they were pricey, they were what came out and they went in nice. I have done moog lower ball joints on a 4th gen f body in my 10 ton press, and once we made a jig to hold the arm right, it went in no problem. You really are putting some force on them, but just think, you don't want them moving! The .020 difference is in the high spots of the ribs only, the idea is that it will displace the metal to the lower spots between and give more surface area to bite to, as well as having more force to hold the joint in place. I tend to shy away from splines replacements unless necessary, because next time you MUST use a splined replacement, as well as, once that gets worn out, there is no next size up. You need a new lower arm at that point.