I will try this too.You're basically doing all the right things, you're just doing it the hard way.
Once the Pistons come out on the wheel cylinder the first thing you have to do is push those back in and the only proper way to do that is to crack the bleeder screw. Once you have those pushed in close the screw. Until those reset, nothing else will reset. Noticed the one lever that is red holding the lever for the ratchet? If that falls off, then your star adjuster will not work.
Once everything is reset, adjust the star adjuster until the drum just drags over the shoes. Put the rim and tire back on and button it up. Go find a large empty parking lot and driving in reverse, with a little bit of speed, stab the brakes. Do that repeatedly probably about 10 times.
That will automatically adjust your shoes to where they need to be. It is impossible to over adjust, because that is the purpose of the ratchet lever that will not allow the star adjuster to over adjust.
After you do that and if you have a spongy pedal that means you have air in the line. The obvious solution to that is to jack it back up, pull the rim and tire, and bleed the brakes. After that you should be fine.
I somehow feel however the proportion valve is the culprit and somehow needs to be reset?