Makes sense. Will keep this in mind. My calibration kit won't arrive for a few more days. Hope to work on it weekend after this.
Update:
So, the kit came in over the weekend and been doing some wrenching. Kit came with 6 weights and 6 springs, all different. Had never worked on a transmission before. Felt intimidating but turned out to be childs play, ha ha!!
First adjustment: The two springs in the trans were of equal spring rate, felt firm for sure. I swapped out springs only for the 2 lightest springs in the kit and went for a drive. The 1-2 shift didn't move, stayed at about 10mph, but 2-3 shift rose from 18mph to 35. Much better than before however the rpms were too high here
Second adjustment: I swapped only one of the weights for a -2 grams weight from the kit. Also, I went down a spring (from #5/6 to #4/5). From the drive the 1-2 shift went up to about 12mph and 2-3 shift dropped to about 25mph. I know the 1-2 shift change wasn't much but the shift kit is suppose to move you through the gears more quickly/efficiently right?! Rpms at this shift could probably be higher, maybe removing the other stock weight for a lighter one would bring it near 15mph, more optimal.
Overall: I've been cruising around town and it just feels right now!! Went on the highway, around 55mph you can tell the deeper 3.42 rear-end is begging for an overdrive gear. I'll postpone that swap for the moment and stick to street cruising.
Thanks all for your advice. Hope this helps others with a similar problem.