Nice to see the above handled this well. Askhole is an excellent term, have watched many times over the years you tell someone to do something, they do the opposite because it's easier, and their junk is messed up more. Why it's easier to just scroll on and let them fail if they won't listen.
This above is a thing that is gone nowadays, people are soft crap and need to be spoon fed because they are still on their momma's tit, as adults.
I was raised to research and figure it out and then proper guidance to move forward, then again had to have the minimum knowledge to get that guidance. That's how you build someone up. Can't turn sh*t into diamonds without a little pressure.
In this day and age, research only goes so far... sometimes.
I'll ask if people have experience with a particular vendor I've found, stuff like that. Idea being, too many companies pay for fake reviews, sorry to say. So I'll trust my community, and, although certain gbody parts vendors are easily found by name search, not so much overlap for wholesale late-model or upholstery outlets.
I started off laughing my butt off when I read an article that students as at one of my alma maters complained of feeling 'physical pain' simply from a political candidate having his name written in chalk by fellow undergrads even though those same students wrote the opponents name in the same chalk.... then I thought to myself, those little b*stards are devaluing my degree.
I say drop ship all of them into Iran or Afghanistan and tell them it's the latest "safe space"