I am just saying it happens, it has to do with transmission fluid has a strong detergent base compared to oil. ATF serves as a hydraulic pressure agent, coolant, cleaner, rubber preservative, and lubricant. To be clear, it is a super cleansing agent, bordering on mildly corrosive. Neglected transmission fluid breaks down and coats the insides, the case, hard parts, and passageways with varnish/sludge. New transmission fluid is a very aggressive solvent and will attack the sludge and varnish. Its really like a stroke or CVA in your transmission. The transmission (or you) does not know about underlying or existing health problems until a blockage occurs. So the new fluid gets contaminated with the debris and carries everywhere. In effect spreading the debris throughout the transmission, until it causes a valve to stick or stops or slows lubrication.
There has also been slight changes in formulation of fluids with the changes in transmission evolution, mostly for electronic control and smoother shifts. A TH400/350 do not need or require the same fluid as a 2004R or 700R4, they are different from a PWM 4L60/65 and even the 6L80. Or, more like the difference between Type F and Dexron/Mercron fluid (ask Ford truck guys about 3 vs 4 or Chrysler guys about using 3). Older transmissions do not rely on shift solenoids, they do not have the multiple layers of filters and screens and ultra small passage-ways that new versions do. In essence, like the synthetic fish oil that is available now.
Transmission flush devices were born out of the changing fluid and filter and transmission failures that followed (with the dawn of overdrive and lock-up transmissions). That being said, I do not agree or support them.
But, parts stores sell ATF, and by law it has to work, same laws do not require that it must not do harm (not a lot, or all at once), just that it has to work. Just like oil without ZDDP in it.
Ask tractor and heavy equipment guys, foam, or lack of foaming agents in 'normal' hydraulic fluid that is for cylinders....heh, it burns up everything else, but it comes from the tractor or equipment supply store.
Kind of like that cheapo oil that actually says "Not for use in automobiles" that is found in grocery stores across the land.
What kind of fuel do you use?
https://www.edmunds.com/fuel-economy/to-save-money-on-gas-stop-buying-premium.html
Look, without going all conspiracy, its part of the obsolescence of our vehicles.