With the TH400, what almost always doesn't get mentioned is it you have an electric kickdown, also determine if it has a switch-pitch convertor in it (some like it, some don't) & the screen's odd-ball from what I remember. Other than that, they're beasts - good score. As you're decoding the car, decode the engine and trans too.
For the cross-member you got options like G-force, Jegs... If running the G-Force I believe you may need to buy the extension kit since it's a '79 since the holes in different locations. But it is beefy, has humps for the duals, and takes a lot of abuse. There was a person making / selling tube crossmembers but can't recall their name (been a LONG time ago).
With the floor shifter, if wanting to do that now with the bench you can run a B&M truck Megashifter. It's the same as the regular one except it has a taller box to put the shifter handle up higher. Or you can run a taller shifter handle like those that are advertised in JC Whitney for trucks. You'll have to think about the neutral / safety switch floor-mount shifters put them at the shifter and maybe a little work on the seat / frame - no biggie. The main thing is to get the cable adjusted properly, especially on the ratcheting shifters. Also, make sure the carpet totally clears the shifting mechanism, if not bind-city. You should be able to remove the column shift lever by tapping out the roll-pin.
Good luck, keep us posted and put up pics during the build.