Your trans should downshift to 3rd when you step on it. You can manually downshift to 3rd. But the real issue is the gear ratio. What are your RPMs in OD at 65 MPH? My car with a similar engine has 2.73 gears and no OD, at 65 MPH I'm turning 2400 RPM. I'll bet in OD you are around 1300 RPM. You really need more gear. A 3.73 would give you about 2200 RPM at 65 in OD and 3300 in 3rd. 4.11 would be around 2500 RPM at 65 in OD and 3700 in 3rd. This all assumes a 26" tire. The RPM calculator on this page should help you out, http://www.differentials.com/technical- ... calculator
You really should look into why your trans isn't downshifting.
You really should look into why your trans isn't downshifting.