Thoughts and prayers with you and your family, I’m a firefighter and emt and see families deal with loss of loved ones too often. So sorry for your loss.
So, bad news.
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Deepest condolences. Sorry for your loss. It's never easy, but we continue to move forward.
Thank you for the kind words and support everyone, more than you know. Its shocking how much life changes in 16 hours from Sunday into Monday.
He was my stepfather, but, also the first REAL father I ever had even if it wasn't until into adulthood he came around. Longevity runs in the female lines on both sides of the family into their 80s, 90s, 100s, 110s. So I was fortunate he and mom were both still with us.
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I am the only family within 3000 miles for mom, aside from a 1600 mile away estranged daughter. So, a lot falls to me alone to sort out as she loses a majority of household income in these times. With her IPF, and her damaged shoulder they won't ok for replacement due to fragility.
I've inherited one of his most prized possessions..he kept it in the sock drawer since the day he got it
The upswings on the 'u' is faint, the surface of the ball there had rubbing which makes it not show in pictures. We'll see if the signature is clear enough for you to tell who it appears to be.
I needed a little break from all going on here though, so, i wanted to just read about cars for a minute ot two... Turns out I was named back-up executor, and, he made some strange moves and non moves that complicate things. So we went from no probate necessary to needing a probate and two ancillary probates opened, I've got to track down a fractional ownership of some 1850s funeral plots in New York, and, there a 423 mile Hyundai around and about, at least, according to a profile on Hyundai finance. So there's that, coupled with my results tomorrow.
Anyways, I guess I ought to get back to things, at least as far as drafting a few more petitions to file before quitting for today.
But, thanks again for the kind words and support.
He was my stepfather, but, also the first REAL father I ever had even if it wasn't until into adulthood he came around. Longevity runs in the female lines on both sides of the family into their 80s, 90s, 100s, 110s. So I was fortunate he and mom were both still with us.
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I am the only family within 3000 miles for mom, aside from a 1600 mile away estranged daughter. So, a lot falls to me alone to sort out as she loses a majority of household income in these times. With her IPF, and her damaged shoulder they won't ok for replacement due to fragility.
I've inherited one of his most prized possessions..he kept it in the sock drawer since the day he got it
The upswings on the 'u' is faint, the surface of the ball there had rubbing which makes it not show in pictures. We'll see if the signature is clear enough for you to tell who it appears to be.
I needed a little break from all going on here though, so, i wanted to just read about cars for a minute ot two... Turns out I was named back-up executor, and, he made some strange moves and non moves that complicate things. So we went from no probate necessary to needing a probate and two ancillary probates opened, I've got to track down a fractional ownership of some 1850s funeral plots in New York, and, there a 423 mile Hyundai around and about, at least, according to a profile on Hyundai finance. So there's that, coupled with my results tomorrow.
Anyways, I guess I ought to get back to things, at least as far as drafting a few more petitions to file before quitting for today.
But, thanks again for the kind words and support.
I am very sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family brother.
I'm glad to hear that he was laughing shortly before moving onward and upward. It sounds like you meant as much to him as he did to you. Take solace in that.
Now I've had to shift gears again because... life. Can't seem to get ahold of some of these dull moments lately.
Ill be sending you a message tonight. No rush.
I've got a renewed drive to do some things.... if I can. And now that's become a new question, new problem.
Maybe it goes up to two cases of beer? Life can be too short to not enjoy yourself now and again.
