That is bizarre! I have a Trailblazer SS with an LS2 6.0 After I converted to a 4L80E, I've gone through 3 flexplates in 3 years (over 90K miles). First one was a strong TCI (SFI rated) that cracked along all three converter mounting points. The other 2 were stock flexplates and did the 360 crack around the crank mounting point.
It's driving my Transmission guy crazy. He's checked everything trans related and can't find an issue there. I didn't think about the crankshaft end play as a possible culprit. I'll be watching this thread as everything unfolds.
Hutch
The bolt hole failure I've only seen when the bolts aren't tight enough. The center breaking is generally something else - TC swelling, crankshaft end play or too much torque for the flexplate. I would like to see all 3, especially the one with the bolt failure to see if there is any evidence of it showing issues at the crank bolt hole area.