Take a large sheet of cardboard. Poke holes in the cardboard for the valves to sit in. Mark them for the Driver and Passenger side. Put the valves in order from front to back in the cardboard. Take the disassembled head (remove any bracketry, manifolds, spark plugs, etc), and look at the valve seats. If they're pitted or gacked in anyway that lapping wouldn't solve, just say "f*ck it" and have the heads done up, or buy a set of aftermarket heads. If they're good enough to lap, soak the heads in a tub of cleaner. Purple Power works good. Get a stiff scrub brush, thick rubber gloves, and after soaking for a while scrub the hell out of em until they shine. Scrub them again with warm water and soap, and then rinse and blow dry with compressed air. Hair driers also work, but you look like a damn fool. While the heads are soaking and/or drying, clean the valves on a wire wheel. Again, if if they can be saved. I use a bottle brush style stiff brush chucked in a drill to run through the valve guides to clean up any leftover crap. Test fit each valve to make sure there is no binding or hanging up.