Im sorry about your situation I really am....Just lost my grandmother to alzheimers...there isnt much worse than someone you have known your whole life having no idea who you are. My mother actually quit her job to take care of her mother and got reimbursed by the government for doing so. It wasnt considered unemployment.....it was set up through social security for people who cannot afford to put relatives in a nursing home. I can get the info for you if you like.