Yes I did, great so now you are going to make me introduce myself, Hi fleming442 my name is 565bbchevy and I have a Monte with a big block, can we eat now?
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Mandatory introduction?
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There is NO requirement for a mandatory introduction on this site. Quite frankly I'm getting a little PO'd that there are certain members taking it upon themselves to enforce this made-up "rule."
This is how internet communities get a reputation as being uppity and "good old boys clubs" and I won't have it here. We were all "n00bs" once. This isn't AA. I shouldn't be required to tell you my life story to be a part of a website on the internet.
As for the X post requirement to sell parts. Since the beginning some 13 years ago I have said I won't do that. Simply because people will either A. create a bunch of sh*t "me-too" posts to beat the rule if they're so inclined, or B. move on and sell their parts to someone who actually wants them, because they don't want to be in a popularity contest.
We've been round and round with this before, all the way to serious suggestions that I personally background-check people who want to sell stuff here. Do you cruise craigslist or hemmings or FB marketplace looking for references and resumes and life stories? I could charge people a buck or five to post in the for sale section, but then nobody would actually do it.
I don't expect every single person that crosses paths with the site to be a life-long buddy pal friend with everyone here. That's just not how the internet works and its just not how anything works. People have questions, people want help getting their car running. People want to sell their parts then fine, if another member can benefit from that then great. Not everyone is looking for love.
Maybe we just help the new guys out, and instead of immediately going "POTHT INTRUDCTION OR NO HELP!" we just be decent people and help each other out? That will get people to stick around more than anything, at least that's my experience.
Have fun with the site, guys. Don't take it too seriously. People come, people go. We've had people here for years and then one day, *poof* they never return. Who knows why. I don't take it personally, or mourn their moving on.
EDIT: I just re-read the thread here about 3 times to be sure I didn't miss anything. I get where everyone's coming from, I do.
All new members get an automated e-mail from me/the site and part of that says they should go to the new users section and introduce themselves, and read the rules etc. It's "officially recommended" but not a requirement. I am working on a way to make it mandatory that new users read a "rules thread" before they're able to post, and I will make sure that same recommendation is in that thread.... I just haven't had the time to implement it since the 2.x update.
This is how internet communities get a reputation as being uppity and "good old boys clubs" and I won't have it here. We were all "n00bs" once. This isn't AA. I shouldn't be required to tell you my life story to be a part of a website on the internet.
As for the X post requirement to sell parts. Since the beginning some 13 years ago I have said I won't do that. Simply because people will either A. create a bunch of sh*t "me-too" posts to beat the rule if they're so inclined, or B. move on and sell their parts to someone who actually wants them, because they don't want to be in a popularity contest.
We've been round and round with this before, all the way to serious suggestions that I personally background-check people who want to sell stuff here. Do you cruise craigslist or hemmings or FB marketplace looking for references and resumes and life stories? I could charge people a buck or five to post in the for sale section, but then nobody would actually do it.
I don't expect every single person that crosses paths with the site to be a life-long buddy pal friend with everyone here. That's just not how the internet works and its just not how anything works. People have questions, people want help getting their car running. People want to sell their parts then fine, if another member can benefit from that then great. Not everyone is looking for love.
Maybe we just help the new guys out, and instead of immediately going "POTHT INTRUDCTION OR NO HELP!" we just be decent people and help each other out? That will get people to stick around more than anything, at least that's my experience.
Have fun with the site, guys. Don't take it too seriously. People come, people go. We've had people here for years and then one day, *poof* they never return. Who knows why. I don't take it personally, or mourn their moving on.
EDIT: I just re-read the thread here about 3 times to be sure I didn't miss anything. I get where everyone's coming from, I do.
All new members get an automated e-mail from me/the site and part of that says they should go to the new users section and introduce themselves, and read the rules etc. It's "officially recommended" but not a requirement. I am working on a way to make it mandatory that new users read a "rules thread" before they're able to post, and I will make sure that same recommendation is in that thread.... I just haven't had the time to implement it since the 2.x update.
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It's a suggestion or discussion, that being said it's an opinion. If people can't discuss or have an opinion then there is bigger problems.
I started the thread because of what l see an guess what someone will start it again at some point.
No point in getting piss about it, we all have our views good or bad!!
I started the thread because of what l see an guess what someone will start it again at some point.
No point in getting piss about it, we all have our views good or bad!!
GP403 as l respect your added/edit comment l also understand your view.
This thread was meant for thoughts on it, people's view point. It wasn't meant to piss you or anyone off. Just a discussion for venting there views, if you take notice ok, if you don't ok.
Without trying to better the wheel it would still be made of wood.
This thread was meant for thoughts on it, people's view point. It wasn't meant to piss you or anyone off. Just a discussion for venting there views, if you take notice ok, if you don't ok.
Without trying to better the wheel it would still be made of wood.
Chris,
With all due respect. I think it's a matter of common courtesy. A brief introduction is not going to hurt anyone. I've always introduced myself no matter what site I joined or became part of. Of course I didn't get into a whole detailed life story about myself... that's totally unnecessary. Just say "HI" and tell us what you're working on and what you plan to achieve. I think it helps open the door for a new member and allows like minded members to respond. Maybe I'm missing something.
It's your site and we'll abide by your rules. I agree that it should be a fun place to hangout and bullshit.
This is still one of the best car sites on the web by far, and I enjoy the camaraderie between fellow members. I've been a member here almost 10 yrs. Believe me, If it sucked and I found the members to be *ssh*les, I'd be long gone. On the contrary. I never met such a great bunch of guys on any forum before.
Well, I said my piece.
With all due respect. I think it's a matter of common courtesy. A brief introduction is not going to hurt anyone. I've always introduced myself no matter what site I joined or became part of. Of course I didn't get into a whole detailed life story about myself... that's totally unnecessary. Just say "HI" and tell us what you're working on and what you plan to achieve. I think it helps open the door for a new member and allows like minded members to respond. Maybe I'm missing something.
It's your site and we'll abide by your rules. I agree that it should be a fun place to hangout and bullshit.
This is still one of the best car sites on the web by far, and I enjoy the camaraderie between fellow members. I've been a member here almost 10 yrs. Believe me, If it sucked and I found the members to be *ssh*les, I'd be long gone. On the contrary. I never met such a great bunch of guys on any forum before.
Well, I said my piece.
My only take on it is just because it is the internet that does not mean you can't or shouldn't treat others as you would in the real world. I'm old and remember the more often than not cordial world I grew up in and hope some of that cordial interaction would be offered by those choosing to join any forum, this one included.
I fixed it but I guess the soup is gone. All I can say is no M & M's for you......😀
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