To all the "kids" on the board, even though none of you really are kids:
GET MAD at those kids who have life handed to them. be disgusted. look at them and decide that you never want to be like them, and that you never want your kids to be like them. the world needs people like them, because people like you and i need something to keep us aligned towards our goals in life.
i'm 26, and when i was in high school, it was the same sh*t. rich kids had the best cars and the best drugs, but no appreciation for either. well, remember that hot girl that liked to shake her tail to get what she wanted? well guess who stood in the corner at our five year reunion drinking with the other "used to be cools" because they were too embarrassed to talk to the "losers" like myself and my wife who worked for everything that they have, and now have REALLY nice cars of their own, along with good jobs and degrees from real colleges that can be used for something other than managing a mcdonalds. nobody in the "cool crowd" knew how to get what the wanted for themselves, and no parent of a twentysomething wants to support their adult children. guess where that leaves them. shitty apartments with jobs waiting tables or delivering furniture. the kids that had to work for what they had, and still had nothing were the ones that were strong and confident individuals who had a lot to be proud of. i was the kid in high school with the green hair and the leather jacket that all those kids made fun of, and in the end the joke was on them. here i sit, a navy veteran with my GED and no other formal education, and i own my own house, have a wonderful loving family, and a great job, in which i will be advancing rapidly.
another perfect example is my brother. my mother thought she ****ed up with her first two sons, so she decided to baby the third. he's 22 now, and is in his 3rd year of a 2 year community college, and he already got his associates degree. he WAS at a very prestigious university, but didn't like it, so now he's wasting his life and money on college credits that he can never use while his friend that he started college with is making about 80-85k per year (if not more) for raytheon after finishing the same program my brother dropped out of because nobody had ever challenged him before.
nobody ever taught these people that you have to work for what you get. and like i said before, the world needs people like that. the world still needs ditchdiggers!
the long and the short of it is, get mad, be upset, but get over it. let that anger help make you who you want to be. don't be jealous of what they have. trust me, you don't want it.