Yep, devil you know is better than the devil you don't sorta thing. Valid point.
I've done both. Really I'm jealous of the country out
DRIVEN 's sort of way. And, interests of 'privacy' I actually seriously contemplated closer, but not in, your neck of the woods where an old fire control center with 18,000 sf+ of buildings, barracks, etc plus has a perimeter fence and guardhouse, some bunkers, all for sale relatively cheap. But, these days, as I'm getting older and finding local docs can't help and I need to visit Massachusetts-based specialists anyways... <eh>..... is what it is.
They've destroyed the local area here in less than two years though, all in the name of 'progress' or so they say. So, were getting out. It'd be nice to be closer to family anyways.