Save, Save, Save. Ask yourself, "if not now, when"? Marvel at the cost of everything. $13.48 for a quart of Castrol GTX 5W30 at Napa, and the guy was surprised when I put it back on the oil rack. Almost $5 for a gallon of windshield washer fluid at Advance. Save, Save, Save, which is much harder to do these past few years than it was before 2021. Marvel at how this place you grew up in doesn't even come close to resembling what it was when you were a kid. Feel sad and nostalgic. Save some more.
We're planning a meeting with the home builder to go over everything in like six weeks. Lumber prices are way down off the peak. Steel prices are way down off the peak. Hopefully appliances, windows, doors and the like have come down too. If the price per square foot is close to where we need to be, we're going to move forward. If they're not, we're going to keep saving. None of us want to stay here. We just don't want to get out there in less than a good financial position. We also don't want to go out there and not do the extras like the shop, the pool and the patio (outdoor living area). We're on our patio here most evenings. It's not something we're willing to do without.