My god, the pics of your daughter helping out are priceless. You should be proud of her (I'm sure you are.)
Regarding your headgasket, you'd be better of with the additional layers of the LS9 gasket and not worry about the increased bore of it. The little bit of compression lost is miniscule and not note worthy. And the concern of too large of a bore is an NA issue, not boosted.
Regarding the port job, your setup needs the most possible even flow too all cylinders because of the meth and what you need it to do. You need every cylinder to receive an equal amount of your Mike's Boost Juice, otherwise you're running a cylinder lean and hot. I'd strongly urge you to leave the General's work alone only for distribution purposes only.
My two cents. Take them for what they're worth.
p.s put a 125-150ml meth nozzle pre-turbo to help.
It, the significance of it, will make more sense to her in 10-15 years when she starts intuitively applying these lessons to other seemly unrelated things in life.
Supply chain issues and budget limitations dictated what I got, and when. Could have got some LS9s through Amazon from BTR for the same money... but, got them in October.
As for the heads, balance and distribution: you worry too much. I keep my tunes in the smart range. Cylinder to cylinder variations are higher stock than most would want to believe. And the inconsistency between ports as cast is pretty astonishing... I mic'd the bowls and have a pretty decent eye for detail. I doubt the variation is going to be more than a few CFM port to port.
The water/meth is fully atomized once it leaves the compressor housing. Meth fully vapourizes at 72*F. So it isn't getting any more or less distributed than the air it is suspended in. Water is a bit harder to gauge. It starts to vapourize at 212*F, but begins evaporating before that point (anything above freezing).
All that to say I'm...
Still considering gapping the rings. Hmmm...