I think you'll find many of the older guys more than willing to help younger guys like yourself. We have to pass the torch on to the younger generation. That's the only way our hobby/ obsession will flourish.Many of my existing friends are quite into car themselves but they don't particularly like to help me in any physical way. They will happily answer all my question though. I've gone to the car show(s) here in my hometown every year. there is even a small car group mostly teenagers of my age or younger but most them give me the "Are you stupid look" when I ask them about something. Although at car shows 90% of the people there are actually helpful.