Many of these points have been covered before. Any way to make it required reading before new memberships are processed? Maybe a mandatory refresher for the rest of us too :lol: ?
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-83MONTESS- said:Why not keep track of each members "negative" posts and when they reach a certain amount label them a "HATER".
Phoenyx said:OK, so without going through all 4 pages I'm gonna guess this is probably 'big wheel' based.
Now the big wheel guys have a right to put their cars on here and show them. Freedom of expression I believe it is, right? So we let anyone (or any style of g) on here because it's their right. And I think that's cool, I like some variety.
But all the so called 'haters' that are giving their opinion have the exact same right. Freedom of speech I believe it is. Positive or negative, people have a right to their opinion. And if you're posting pics on a public forum, you gotta take the good and the bad.
And I see a lot of people claiming the ones with negative opinions are the bad guys. But I think it's the ones getting angry about opinions that are causing the problems. This isn't a fairy tale where everything is perfect. Everybody likes some things and dislikes other things, plain and simple.
People say things like if you don't like the car then don't look at it. Well how about if you don't like the comment then don't read it?
I drive a 4 door Malibu with steel rims and hubcaps. Lot's of people say things like, it's an old man car, taxi cab, it's just a 4 door, and simply don't like it. But then there are those who get it. What you gotta do is have fun with it. If I say (for example), cars with big rims look goofy. Just laugh it off and say something like, that hurts coming from a guy driving a taxi. You know what I mean, people gotta not take things so seriously.
I know it's gotta be tough to keep a forum like this going. But sometimes you just gotta tell people to put on their big boy pants and deal with it. This isn't kindergarten, it's a public forum.
And I just have to add this: Why is it only the big wheel guys that get all mad about negative comments? We all get them (just from different people or places), don't feel so bad.
for the most part i think we are all grown enough to accept criticism, where not much has to be done. the issue is that when people start posting in the thread (the negativity) then the thread ends of in a bashing match and it all ends up in it being closed, because a person starting posting sillyness. I think if its going to be allowed in the OPs thread, then his thread shouldnt be close because if it, at a minimum. if its going to be closed, it should be because the OP posted a thread that is unacceptable to the forum. If it is acceptable to the forum (the OPs original thread topic and post), then people in the thread that are posting negativity, shouldn't be allowed to continue this, because what I have noticed is that the thread gets closed. So in my opinion that creates some bias and the people posting this stuff in the thread are well aware that the behavior is going to get the thread closed/locked. they should be warned and then banned out the section for a little while, to ensure people have a fair opportunity to share their interests.GP403 said:Thanks, guys. Given me a lot to chew on. Some of these ideas just aren't technically possible given the limitations of the software (or require some hairy, questionable addons), some of these I'm not sure I really want to implement (they're pretty harsh!).... but still a lot to think about.
One thing is a given, myself (and the mods) need to do a better job moving threads where they belong. For the most part you all are pretty good about starting topics in the right place, but we'll have to start being a bit more strict.
Keep the ideas coming!
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