city population of 20-80k, not growing fast, so I don't see all the farmland being gobbled up by "civilization". an hour from the nearest major airport is fine. no major interstates or state highways running thru with 50k cars a day. the nearest state highway to me is about 1.1 miles as the crow flies and I can hear the traffic at night sometimes on a clear night.You gotta pick your priorities.
We don't have tons of stores nearby... might have 3 locally owned one-off restaurants and a couple fast food places in the county ?or st least within half an hour drive).
But you know what else we don't have? Crime. 'Progressive initiatives'. Dumb fartcan exhaust cars driven recklessly by kids. Heck, we've been from one end of the county to another and not a single dumba$$ public ev charging station. Not sure I've seen one of those POS on the roads here either.
But my subdivision does average one corvette of c6 or later every other driveway. And plenty of pickup trucks.
So question is, do you want city life with the stupidity that goes with it, and arguably certain "conveniences", or, quality of life with less "conveniences" but no city and all the swill that goes with them?
don't wanna be anywhere near a tourist trap where every weekend you have out of towners, or be a vacationland during the summer with a mass influx of "privileged elite" with money. we've been researching for the last coupe years and have some good ideas of where we want to be based on the above factors, what our own cost of living would be in retirement, and what type of climate we prefer.