Cool beans dude. You'll never get rid of that whistle NA due to the overly large TB for the engine. As you mentioned, the IAC is working overtime.
If you had a smaller (stock) TB, then that noise will be gone. Or install a Taiwan transmission trasher and it'll be muffled 🙂
Edit - I didn't notice there were another 2 pages of posts after the running video - oops.
I read a couple of the other posts and there is an excellent chance that those guys are onto something, but I've never been able to lose that sound via an IAC change. I'll bet if you crack the TB open about 1-2 %, then the sound is gone. But the idle is higher.
I say live with it, then you'll know when your motor is running vs everyone else's.